There have been many times in my life, and I suspect in
yours, that something has happened where your life was placed you in danger but
you managed to avoid a catastrophe by sheer luck. Perhaps, just in the nick of time, you realized what was
about to happen and you stepped back from the brink of disaster. Or, more commonly, someone else
recognized what was about to happen and intervened. These are the “near-misses” in our lives that we all
experience from time-to-time.
When an accident happens, especially a serious accident
where people are injured and sometimes killed, an investigation usually
follows. An accident investigation
board is convened. Witnesses are called.
Experts testify as to how the accident happened and how it could have
been prevented. Then
recommendations are published hoping that a similar situation can be avoided in
the future. Seldom does the same
train-of-events take place following a “near-miss!” But it should! I suspect that for every accident that happens there are
probably dozens, if not hundreds, maybe thousands, of “near misses.” Situations that we seldom hear about but
situations that we could learn a lot from if we were made aware of the details.
Sometimes someone else causes the incident that leads to a “near
miss” and there’s probably little that we can do to about that except to be as
observant as we can and then react quickly enough to avoid a problem. Sometimes the problem is of our own making
and when it is, the situation is particularly dangerous because we are often
completely unaware of what is happening.
In this scenario, whether or not an accident occurs, depends in large
part on the awareness, vigilance and ability of the others involved to take the
necessary action to avoid an accident.
If we were honest we would have to admit that sometimes we
just get lucky and nothing bad happens.
But I for one don’t want to go through life depending on “luck” to keep
me safe. I want to be aware of
what’s going on around me. I want
to be able to detect the precursors of life endangering situations and avoid
them. I want to pay attention to
the “near misses,” learn from them and then, in similar circumstances,
recognize what is about to happen and back-off before something bad happens! As much as possible I want to be in
control of my destiny and not depend on chance or the activities of others to
determine my future.
So the next time you have a “near miss” take the time to
analyze the events leading up to the incident. Identify the conditions that existed that played a role in
creating a situation where you (or someone else) could have been injured or
killed. Objectively and honestly determine
your part in the scenario. And
then, after you have evaluated the evidence, determine the “lessons-learned.”
Remember that unless the “lessons-learned” result in a change in your behavior
you may be doomed to have another “near miss” and this time you might not be so
lucky!